Shame is a deeply painful and potentially debilitating emotion. Shame can make us feel flawed, unworthy, and disconnected from others and ourselves. It often stems from past experiences, societal pressures, or unrealistic expectations, and can significantly impact one’s mental health and well-being. Unlike guilt, which is about feeling bad for what we’ve done, shame is about feeling bad for who we are.
Understanding the Impact of Shame
Shame can lead to a range of negative effects, including low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and difficulties in/with relationships. It acts like a black or dark fog, clouding judgment and making it tough to function. When left unaddressed, shame can become a silent epidemic, spreading fear and encouraging negative behaviour, thinking, and feelings.
Therapeutic Approach to Shame Recovery
As a therapist, I specialize in helping clients navigate and overcome the master emotion of shame. My approach is grounded in empathy, understanding, and evidence-based techniques to build resilience and foster healing. Compassion will ignite self-compassion, and in turn, shame will no longer consume you.